I saw my son who is grown up IRL as a 7-8 year old
he was holding a book of matches
he struck match and whole book went a blaze
rather than drop them he ran backwards crying still holding them
I thought... maybe he is retarded ...and was embarrassed
so after that, I told him to do some things
that would prove he was not retarded
this was all done in front of peers
he did not do well on tests