rekindled friendship

[kingnme]

so as I have posted the question of what does it mean to dream of you washing dishes

so me and my daughter walked up to this apartment

and her friend answered the door

IRL ...this was a guy who showed interest in my daughter from the church .... I was elated

however due to some issues from people at the church ...it went south ...

he mentioned a possible of her being his wife one day

THAT was a game changer for us at our home ...

so we placed them on restrictions to see if this is something they BOTH wanted ...

we didnt want them to run on feelings or pressure from us and his family as well AND members

well....some of the members did NOTTTT take this well from our family this whole idea of them JUST GOING off to date freely

we (her dad and I ) thought thats good however he mentioned marriage ....(but they didnt know that)

we (her dad and me) have a background of teen pregnancy starting from my MOTHER down

we have issues with shacking ......

wE wanted THESE two to reeeealy think about this carefully

anyways ....after 8 months IT WENT south

however it was stated that most dating couple dont last past four months ....

well the restrictions we had them on ....allowed the dating to last 8 MONTHS !!! so the particular way we had them go WORKED

anyways ...

DREAM

we walked thru the door and they began to dance together and right after I washed dishes

[bjcollin]

mealtime fellowship time is over, time to cleanup and pray for cleansing from the situation and reflect on what was learned. I see it as a good symbol.

[kingnme]

WOW! thats astounding ! ...why?

because it really did end on a terrible note ...

between me and the guy... my daughter and the guy... church members hating me !

but what the members DID NOT understand was.... it was the guy who mentioned marriage OUT THE gate

which in mY opinion wasn't good ...being that they were YOUNG and never really had any other steadiness any where else

and I can tell he himself wasn't really sure if this was what he wanted ..why ?

I felt that this was ...'encouraged' by church members/his family members to pick my daughter who also is young like him with nO children
they wanted him to find someone to date and marry ...

so who would be a great candidate ?? my daughter

like I said I was elated at the idea ...he seemed (still is) a cool guy

what got me about this dream ...we havent seen this kid since 2018 ...so its kinda weeeird to have this dream now

the members thoughts were....as the adage says on the outside looking in

AND misconstruing the whole situation... causing MUCH discord !

and between me and her dad we place them on restricted dating ....HIS mother thought that was NUTS !!

BUT ...when the enemy has ravaged generations before ME AND HIS MOM as well

....see the devil is ALWAYS into the NEXT ........he is always about THE NEXT generation

I was a teen mom....... MY MOTHER. was a teen mom ..her FIRST daughter (my sister) a teen mom

I was born out of wedlock my sister behind me was born out of wedlock

let me tell ya !

between my grandmother and my first born son ??

NO ONE was married and or NOT shacking up before children or no children we all fell in between those issues

and NOT to mention the young guys family as well ...teen mothers and teen dads on HIS side as well

the young guy and my daughter were not in those categories

well I wanted to BY THE ONLY ......only .....HELP of THE LORD ...

.I just wanted to stop the hermorraging !!! ........THANKS AGAIN BJ !!